Let’s get right to the point – although I’ve been in a relationship for 5 years now, it is (almost) never boring. The main reason is that both of us chose a certain way in our personal lives and as a couple, we continuously and consciously choose to get out of our comfort zone.
It may sound harsh and unpleasant, but it’s not. As long as we step just a bit out of our comfort zone, it adds a certain level of challenge and interest to our life and avoids our relationship from turning into a survival show.
There are many ways that we force ourselves to get out of our comfort zone. One of them is to break routines and patterns. It starts with the small things, like switching sides of the bed every couple of days. Quite often, when we visit friends and family, we stay over for the night. It’s not always as comfortable as staying at home and it gets us out of our usual routines.
For the rest of the article, see Uri’s guest post at lovesujeiry.